oh psh, i definitely want to say this to someone, but i just don't want to.

CHANGE.

you need to. the way you're going, you're going to end up a lonely old figure in a rocking chair gumming a carrot.

BUT--don't change until i've done all my world-travelling and done all that i've wanted to do before i start thinking about settling down.

(in other words, let me help you with your epiphany.)

i know that's selfish and completely unrealistic to ask of you, but that's a strong desire of mine.

-d